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Stockings (especially real nylons) and lingerie are a big part of our relationship and lifestyle. 

We get a lot of private messages  from people on SHQ - but we aren't always able to answer them x

Many moons ago, we did have a topic on SHQ about cuckolding - which some didn't agree with... so we pulled it... but stockings are a big part of who we are and we believe the 2 go hand in hand for us x

So please feel free to ask us on here if you have any questions x and keep the discussion alive x all in a positive and respectful way x

 

 

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1 hour ago, HouseofNylon said:

Stockings (especially real nylons) and lingerie are a big part of our relationship and lifestyle. 

We get a lot of private messages  from people on SHQ - but we aren't always able to answer them x

Many moons ago, we did have a topic on SHQ about cuckolding - which some didn't agree with... so we pulled it... but stockings are a big part of who we are and we believe the 2 go hand in hand for us x

So please feel free to ask us on here if you have any questions x and keep the discussion alive x all in a positive and respectful way x

 

 

Do what pleases you, you're both consenting adults and life is for enjoying.

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2 hours ago, HouseofNylon said:

Stockings (especially real nylons) and lingerie are a big part of our relationship and lifestyle. 

We get a lot of private messages  from people on SHQ - but we aren't always able to answer them x

Many moons ago, we did have a topic on SHQ about cuckolding - which some didn't agree with... so we pulled it... but stockings are a big part of who we are and we believe the 2 go hand in hand for us x

So please feel free to ask us on here if you have any questions x and keep the discussion alive x all in a positive and respectful way x

 

 

Hello Madam. Is it possible to write you a personal message please? Thank you. Sincerely, John

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It’s fantastic to keep this topic alive. I think the topic is misunderstood by lots of people, after all it’s just glorified exercise with likeminded people. 
I love the fact that some couples can be completely honest about their wants and needs and are able to share moments of intense sexual pleasure together. 
I agree that stockings and these lifestyle choice go hand in hand. Stockings add to the sexually charged atmosphere that the bull is often trying to create. 
I know it’s an essential part of the build up in the relationships I’m part of. Whether it’s the hubby dressing his wife for me, or me telling the lady what she will wear. 
Stockings play an important part in the power plays that go on within a cuckold relationship. That back and forth where another person impacts a relationship in a positive way. 
As long as everyone are willing consenting actors in the play, and ground rules have been drawn in advance and communication remains strong then there is no better experience. 
I am so glad that you share a similar outlook on life and thank you for bringing it back into the discussion group as I know lots of people are curious on how these things work. 

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1 minute ago, HouseofNylon said:

Depends x sometimes just stockings and lingerie... only me and lovers can see it xx

Love that as I sometimes make the hubby wear. It adds an interesting twist to the dynamic, it’s really just an extension of the aspect of control and for some people the added humiliation is a massive turn on. 

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As I was a cuckold for 16 years and have stated on here before when my wife started a affair with her boss she started to wear stockings and suspenders with shortish skirts for work as told by him she had to

When I asked her why she would wear them for him and not for me the reply came because he was a real man and told her to, and I had only asked.

She said he told her what he wanted and she told him I had asked her to wear them he told her that she must wear them everyday to humiliate me and enforce his dominance over us.

I found it a real turn on the fact she was doing exactly what he wanted and she liked humiliating me 

I hope hon this is similar to you

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15 hours ago, HouseofNylon said:

Stockings (especially real nylons) and lingerie are a big part of our relationship and lifestyle. 

We get a lot of private messages  from people on SHQ - but we aren't always able to answer them x

Many moons ago, we did have a topic on SHQ about cuckolding - which some didn't agree with... so we pulled it... but stockings are a big part of who we are and we believe the 2 go hand in hand for us x

So please feel free to ask us on here if you have any questions x and keep the discussion alive x all in a positive and respectful way x

 

 

Thanks for sharing on this topic. It's brilliant to hear about your lifestyle and if it works for you both then it sounds like a great arrangement.

Really enjoy your posts as in addition to my fondness for ladies in nylons, it's even more of a turn on for me if they're married and have some naughty fun.

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1 hour ago, Sly fox said:

As I was a cuckold for 16 years and have stated on here before when my wife started a affair with her boss she started to wear stockings and suspenders with shortish skirts for work as told by him she had to

When I asked her why she would wear them for him and not for me the reply came because he was a real man and told her to, and I had only asked.

She said he told her what he wanted and she told him I had asked her to wear them he told her that she must wear them everyday to humiliate me and enforce his dominance over us.

I found it a real turn on the fact she was doing exactly what he wanted and she liked humiliating me 

I hope hon this is similar to you

I started wearing nylons because my husband asked me to. I actually hated them at first and found them annoying.

But once I found a really good 6 strap suspender belt... and the fact I knew what they did to my husband and other men it seems... my confidence and love for stockings grew xx 

My husband always gets to choose my outfits (unless he isnt there and then it is a surprise) and he also always attaches the nylons to my clips xx 

He gets to see me dressed for another man and I get to feel amazing xx 

 

 

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16 hours ago, HouseofNylon said:

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My my quite delightful, your description of your lifestyle is very honest indeed, many would not be so forthcoming, it is  a breathe of fresh air which has been under clouds of shame for decades.

In the age of the multiplicity of sex definitions and and orientations that we are in now, there should be no shame in "cuckolding", as long as both parties are willing  parties to it, and it is pertinent to the male and female variations of it.

There are instances where it is a solution to a physical/psychological situation, so as with all things, be accepting and think before making judgements made with insufficient knowledge of cause and effect. 

My compliments to you Houseofnylon, and slyfox. 

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Interesting. As a young teen I was aware that lingerie, tights and especially stockings were a turn on for me. in my early 20's I met a girl who began wearing FFNs and other nicer stockings most days (why etc for another time). We both loved the effect they had when we were out even just shopping. She enjoyed the mild tease and how it turned me on to see her being eyed up by others. 

Our sex live always involved stockings and, over time, we explored new avenues, for example, she encouraged me to wear with her at home and spend time teasing and caressing with extended foreplay with lots of talk about scenarios involving others, typically people we knew but, also strangers like shop workers, taxi drivers and such.

Stockings, in particular FFNs became central to our time together. 

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Just a quick note to say that I loved the original conversation.

I was a bull for a hotwife couple for years, it's a wonderful lifestyle for a couple when it works for both of them.

In his case he started by "listening in" but eventually moved to observing.

It was incredibly arousing for everyone concerned.

 

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Cuckolding was a thing I never understood until I met a gentleman who was really into it. It started from the second I was getting ready to meet my young friend, and stockings and suspenders played a big part of it unless my other friend made specific requests like wearing an evening dress and being totally naked under it, as was often the case with one particular man. I have to say I learnt to love the lifestyle.  

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20 hours ago, HouseofNylon said:

 

Your wonderful words in your OP are backed up superbly by this very sexy seductive sensual sultry shot of you flashing such superb suspenders and sensational stockings with a cute pair of heels. You really do have a sublime spectacular special superlative stupendous supreme pair of legs that completely deserved to be dressed in this manner. Lovely dress as well BTW very femininely fetching and shows what a fabulous figure you have. Any man being in your company would be very lucky indeed. As for your lifestyle well who are we to judge? It is all done in a very honest genuine and respectful way it seems to me and is legal as well. Your husband and you clearly understand each other's desires and needs and also clearly love each other a lot and make the sacrifices/adjustments you need to make to live your lives in a very happy way. I actually feel quite honoured and privileged that you share it all with us. It's a joy to behold and very heart-warming to know that there are genuine people on here that live their lives in the manner they want and I wish you all the very best moving forward.

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Delightful, I would love to talk further. I tried to message and it did not allow.   Could I ask to be emailed ? X 

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2 hours ago, HouseofNylon said:

Please message on this post x it is all open to discussion 

I would love to chat about the origins of your lifestyle, and compare to my own experiences. I am not an expert, or massively experienced, I would love to re enter the experience again…

 

anywaym 18 years ago a lady I worked with (friendly mumsie sort at the reception, 8 was 40, she was maybe 60) used to chat with ‘Mary’ ,  with a mutual love of history and historical buildings she invited me to afternoon drinks with hubby-  that turned out to be dry Victoria sponge and tea..  she said she would let her hubby out of the dungeon when I came round.  NO , She did NOT have a dungeon. She lived in a large semi.. it was a figure of speach, no one had seen him at Christmas partys

 

zip forward , 2 weeks later I pop around for tea with ‘M’ and sponge cake. Hubby was there, full of beans and laughing. Serving the afore mentioned cake. I said ‘M let you out of your chains for my visit “   His face dropped, as if he had seen a ghost! M herself went quiet, and smiled.

over the next month or so, I returned, and hubby became more ‘service orientated’ no fetish clothes, quiet and brought refreshments. M, his wife did wear suspenders, and long pleated skirts . Strappy heels. We kissed, touched. I had told her I love a classy woman in heels and nylons. She liked to tease. Not me, her hubby

to make a short story of a long tale, she told me of her lifestyle, totally Non-mumsie, her demeanour changed , strongly confident. Like a different woman.  As the weeks progressed, hubby did indeed end up naked , with a blue ribbon tied around his ‘genitals’, don’t forget this is 18 years ago,  never heard of a cock cage back then. I doubt M and hubby had much internet use either.

hubby would be lead to the bedroom and watch his wife being entertained, yes it was rude, naughty and I had a wonderful time. 

this went on, for 2 years or thereabouts , when M & Hubby moved away from West Kent to be near their one grandson near Luton. We are still in touch. She still wears a wishbone charm necklace I bought her and presented her when the 3 of us went for a farewell dinner.

 

so House of Nylon, I enjoyed a cuckhold relationship, out of the blue, with respect to all persons who consent. I would love to play once again. thanks for your post in the forum being a mature piece, not all “bump&grind” x
 

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1 hour ago, Bertram said:

I would love to chat about the origins of your lifestyle, and compare to my own experiences. I am not an expert, or massively experienced, I would love to re enter the experience again…

 

anywaym 18 years ago a lady I worked with (friendly mumsie sort at the reception, 8 was 40, she was maybe 60) used to chat with ‘Mary’ ,  with a mutual love of history and historical buildings she invited me to afternoon drinks with hubby-  that turned out to be dry Victoria sponge and tea..  she said she would let her hubby out of the dungeon when I came round.  NO , She did NOT have a dungeon. She lived in a large semi.. it was a figure of speach, no one had seen him at Christmas partys

 

zip forward , 2 weeks later I pop around for tea with ‘M’ and sponge cake. Hubby was there, full of beans and laughing. Serving the afore mentioned cake. I said ‘M let you out of your chains for my visit “   His face dropped, as if he had seen a ghost! M herself went quiet, and smiled.

over the next month or so, I returned, and hubby became more ‘service orientated’ no fetish clothes, quiet and brought refreshments. M, his wife did wear suspenders, and long pleated skirts . Strappy heels. We kissed, touched. I had told her I love a classy woman in heels and nylons. She liked to tease. Not me, her hubby

to make a short story of a long tale, she told me of her lifestyle, totally Non-mumsie, her demeanour changed , strongly confident. Like a different woman.  As the weeks progressed, hubby did indeed end up naked , with a blue ribbon tied around his ‘genitals’, don’t forget this is 18 years ago,  never heard of a cock cage back then. I doubt M and hubby had much internet use either.

hubby would be lead to the bedroom and watch his wife being entertained, yes it was rude, naughty and I had a wonderful time. 

this went on, for 2 years or thereabouts , when M & Hubby moved away from West Kent to be near their one grandson near Luton. We are still in touch. She still wears a wishbone charm necklace I bought her and presented her when the 3 of us went for a farewell dinner.

 

so House of Nylon, I enjoyed a cuckhold relationship, out of the blue, with respect to all persons who consent. I would love to play once again. thanks for your post in the forum being a mature piece, not all “bump&grind” x
 

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Very interesting and well written post. What an experience this must have been for you.

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5 hours ago, mikehash said:

Exactly, there's things that are not for general admission!

 

I think that’s the point of the post, to try and have a grown up conversation about  this lifestyle. Move it from the taboo into more mainstream thinking. 
I understand that we don’t want too much graphic detail, but so far I think the topic has been respectful to everyone concerned. 
In the 3 relationships I’ve been involved in, every dynamic is different. A good bull listens to what the couple wants out of the lifestyle and provides a sexually charged environment what meets the needs of all concerned. 
One couple I play with love the humiliation aspect to it, the wife of another couple is actually an ex of mine who later remarried and the other is a longer story and is a far kinkier couple who actually were the ones who wanted their bull to dress up. In all relationships stockings are a fundamental part of the process. It’s my thing. 
I completely understand that it’s not everyone’s cup of tea, but I think it’s really important to dispel some of the myths and show it’s a healthy, loving way for a couple to show their love for each other. 

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I'm so glad this topic has been posted. Ive been fascinated by cuckolding for a long time. In my fantasies at least, II aspire to be a cuckold and yes, I can see how stockings and suspenders can become part of the hotwife 'uniform'

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I or we have lived a cuckold lifestyle, in various incarnations, since before we were married. It's not for everyone but it has worked really well for us and contributed to a very long and stable marriage. I don't feel able to detail our experiences here and it would be too long anyway but I've written about it in my blog. I'm happy to provide a link to the specific part 'Being a cuckoldress' which explains how we first got into it and how it developed over time but it is very explicit, so I don't want to do so if this will cause offence.

Your guidance on this welcome.

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On 27/10/2025 at 13:21, mikehash said:

Exactly, there's things that are not for general admission!

 

I think there is room for an open discussion and talk in a forum - especially when this forum is on a fetish site with like-minded adults... but it has to be done in a positive way

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4 hours ago, HouseofNylon said:

I think there is room for an open discussion and talk in a forum - especially when this forum is on a fetish site with like-minded adults... but it has to be done in a positive way

Completely agree. I think we have only scratched the surface of why and what a cuckold relationship is, but I’ve found in all dynamics it’s about power and the wilful handing over of power to another person. 
That is a precious gift and I feel genuinely honoured to be able to take it and provide experiences  that meet the needs of all involved, but equally challenges their boundaries to enable them to take a step into the unknown. 
If true redlines are discussed honest and openly then everyone can feel safe in the knowledge that nothing will overstep the agreed mark. 
It’s a delicate balance and not every dynamic gets it right, but when communication is clear and honest then the sex and lead up to sex can be honestly mind blowing. 
 

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19 minutes ago, Bounty said:

Completely agree. I think we have only scratched the surface of why and what a cuckold relationship is, but I’ve found in all dynamics it’s about power and the wilful handing over of power to another person. 
That is a precious gift and I feel genuinely honoured to be able to take it and provide experiences  that meet the needs of all involved, but equally challenges their boundaries to enable them to take a step into the unknown. 
If true redlines are discussed honest and openly then everyone can feel safe in the knowledge that nothing will overstep the agreed mark. 
It’s a delicate balance and not every dynamic gets it right, but when communication is clear and honest then the sex and lead up to sex can be honestly mind blowing. 
 

Transparency and honesty are the fundamentals for our dynamic x

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