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After fun and sexy night away here are the real Mr and Mrs Sc! We are fed up and sad seeing posts which undermine male wearers. Does it matter ..  no it doesn’t! Why can’t we all be accepted no matter what our choices are.  Male or female .. if we find it sexy let’s embrace it ! 

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2 hours ago, Somersetrevival said:

After fun and sexy night away here are the real Mr and Mrs Sc! We are fed up and sad seeing posts which undermine male wearers. Does it matter ..  no it doesn’t! Why can’t we all be accepted no matter what our choices are.  Male or female .. if we find it sexy let’s embrace it ! 

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I have stated that i don't find men dressing up in stockings sexy at all., is that wrong of me ? 

What exactly should i be accepting? Something that you find acceptable? 

You are far from living in the real world.

 

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31 minutes ago, How 2dv8 the mind said:

I have stated that i don't find men dressing up in stockings sexy at all., is that wrong of me ? 

What exactly should i be accepting? Something that you find acceptable? 

You are far from living in the real world.

 

Your initial statement is by no means wrong of you at all.

"Accepting" in this case refers to tolerance of people who mean no harm to anyone else.

Please tell us about "the real world".

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1 hour ago, kellym said:

Your initial statement is by no means wrong of you at all.

"Accepting" in this case refers to tolerance of people who mean no harm to anyone else.

Please tell us about "the real world".

Where have i said i am not tolerant to people that mean no harm ? 

I feel ganged up on because i don't find males wearing women's underwear sexy.

I have never made any comment before about male wearer's, the last few days yes, mainly because of the chilli boys contribution on another thread, and questioning is it right for a male to post pictures on a thread topic that's inviting women to show a certain pose.

Sorry, i was referring to the OP thread title....what then is real life ? 

If i was standing behind someone who was wearing seamed stockings, heels, nice skirt/dress, flowing hair I'd be thinking wow, hello.... only then to find out it's a man.... I'd not be interested, I'd be thinking yuck.

That's me being honest, my real world.

Sorry if that upsets people.

Now i have nothing left to say, i think I've used up my 10 posts today 🤪🤪😁

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5 hours ago, Somersetrevival said:

We are fed up and sad seeing posts which undermine male wearers.

Thank you so much for your support.

5 hours ago, Just marge said:

I have phone chatted to some some lovely people on this site...gentlemen...couples ..CDs...

I can vouch for that! 😁 Thank you too!

 

3 hours ago, How 2dv8 the mind said:

I have stated that i don't find men dressing up in stockings sexy at all., is that wrong of me ? 

Not in the least. (I'm the free speech zealot on these fora.)

But I'm sure you'll understand why I prefer the outlook of the above posters.

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8 hours ago, Ursula Harrison said:

Thank you so much for your support.

I can vouch for that! 😁 Thank you too!

 

Not in the least. (I'm the free speech zealot on these fora.)

But I'm sure you'll understand why I prefer the outlook of the above posters.

Yes i do understand, if it makes you happy then it's all good.

It's happened before on this forum if you dare speak out against something you get shot down.

Your reply is a breath of fresh air and much appreciated.

 

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I didn’t post to cause an argument here . I just don’t think that male wearers need to be put down or singled out .
And the real life title was to do with me and Mr S’s photo with no kind of dressing up . As in that’s our real life (sat home slobbing on the sofa)

I just don’t understand why any comments need to be made undermining a male wearer .Why just not make a comment if they don’t like what they see rather than upset someone who was already saying they didn’t feel very happy that day . 

 

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12 hours ago, Somersetrevival said:

I didn’t post to cause an argument here . I just don’t think that male wearers need to be put down or singled out .
And the real life title was to do with me and Mr S’s photo with no kind of dressing up . As in that’s our real life (sat home slobbing on the sofa)

I just don’t understand why any comments need to be made undermining a male wearer .Why just not make a comment if they don’t like what they see rather than upset someone who was already saying they didn’t feel very happy that day . 

 

It's the same as social media - if someone doesn't like something, they can simply scroll past. I don't have a problem with male wearers as I am one. Years ago, I didn't get it and probably had a degree of unconscious bias against male wearers - until I started myself. Then I got it! I just like doing it. It relaxes me at the end of the day and I'm doing zero harm to anyone. On top of that, there's this site to connect with others, not just male wearers, who are also accepting and are easy to chat to. It's a shame that there's such abuse meted out to male wearers. I don't dress fully - just the lingerie and stockings and have no desire to go out dressed but I do respect (hugely!) those that do. I'm not attracted to men although don't have an issue with those that are - I have a number of gay friends - as I'm completely hetero. I just don't see what the issue is that people have.

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On 17/09/2023 at 18:20, Somersetrevival said:

After fun and sexy night away here are the real Mr and Mrs Sc! We are fed up and sad seeing posts which undermine male wearers. Does it matter ..  no it doesn’t! Why can’t we all be accepted no matter what our choices are.  Male or female .. if we find it sexy let’s embrace it ! 

Absolutely spot-on and words we'd all do well to follow and support. Praise what you like and admire and move on if you don't. Simples!

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