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Chat Room Terms & Conditions

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Chat Room Terms & Conditions.

No one under 18 allowed under any circumstances. Please make the moderators aware immediately if you become aware of anyone under the age of 18 or even claiming to be under 18.

Only one login allowed per person. Should you wish to change your user name it can be done via your profile.

No private messaging without FIRST getting permission. You must ask in the main room for permission before you click on the private message button, wait for a reply before pc'ing. Do NOT pc to ask for permission.

No asking for phone, webcam, facebook, myspace, msn, yahoo or any other applications in main room.

No racism, sexism, religious jokes or insults in main room or private rooms. Treat others as you would expect to be treated. This chat room should be a fun place to visit

If someone breaks the rules do not start an argument with them. Report it to the moderator in the room or via the forums.

No references to under 18's in the context of wearing stockings or in any sexual way even in pc, keep your sons, daughters and their/your doings away from here.

No swearing in main room. What may seem acceptable to you may be offensive to others!

No links/url's in the main room. SHQ links only will be allowed. Links to porn sites will incur an automatic ban.  Spending time in the chat room to advertise your own site/s is not allowed.

No Pestering for pc or meeting up or any other annoyance, everyone has the right to say no!

No reference to family members (e.g mum, dad, son, daughter etc.), email addresses or web cam/phone requests, even in your profile names.

Keep your horny/bondage etc. state out of the main room as this is a public chat room and most people do not want to know about it.

No soliciting for dogging, swinging, other professional services, there are specific sites for that and this is not it.

Please do not deceive users. Either tag your user name with CD, TV, TS and be proud to admit to it when chatting. This will save so much frustration for all users and you. Please respect other users who do not understand it and keep chat to pc.

Complete your profile please, everyone requested it and now it is not used, you will find many friendly people willing to chat. Should you try to deceive, you will be caught out without a doubt, our users are bright, so save yourself the embarrassment and possible removal from the chat room.

Do not use stolen photos for either your profile or your gallery photos as photos are very easy to trace and most of our members will recognise photos belonging to others, even porn sites from around the world. It is a breach of copyright and we cannot be held responsible.

HOW IT WORKS!!!

You will receive 2 warnings .... The third time you break the rules you will be expelled from the room and banned from the chat room.
A ban will last from 7 days to permanent depending on the severity of the rule breaking and your response to the moderators.

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Hi just to let you know that someone pced me yesterday without asking and claimed to be turkish and straight away ask me to phone her, this must be a scam

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Yes indeed I had a word with the person who declined to answer. But various reports to me said they were claiming to be male and others that they were female

Hi just to let you know that someone pced me yesterday without asking and claimed to be turkish and straight away ask me to phone her, this must be a scam

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Be aware you could be phoning a very high charging number and only realise it when your phone bill arrives.

Check the profile and you would have noticed the person had just joined SHQ yesterday. Be aware by using the tools available to you for checking on users that make you offers.

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Been lots of childishness in the chat room recently - wish people would respect others, its simple manners - they cost nothing, the people who hassle the women, will simply chase them away. There are plenty of other sites to accommodate lewd comments, swearing, swingers and dating.

Keep the fun going, and respect the moderator's final word too!

Sue

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Apparently there is currently much soliciting for various things in the chat room.

This is not the place to do it, please use your swingers, dogging and similar sites for that. This might be your interest but from the number of complaints it is obvious that it is not everyone's interest.

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Such a pity that some members here appear to think it all good to copy photo's off paysites and pass it off as their own profile pics and in their galleries.

You will be found out I can assure you. Apart from it being theft, it is deception of the worst kind and beware if the owner of the photo's manages to trace you.

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Its all to common these days I'm afraid. The percentage of fakers seems to be increasing lately and why do it anyway.

It's ruining the sites for genuine people, we trust no one now until we know they're ok, which is a pity .

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As a newby I have to say that while the chat room is too chaotic to be of much interest the vast majority who PC have proven to be polite, interesting and not a problem at all.

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Please do not request to be friends with users who state they are 16 in their profiles, instead report it to a moderator or David.

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I seem to be in contradiction to the rules as a transvestite who has not tagged their name with TV, i do never try to mislead people and my profile clearly states I am a trannie.

When asking to chat I always say i am a trannie, and if I receive a blind pc I always ask if they have read my profile.

I hope this will be sufficient, as a frequent customer of SHQ I would hate to be banned from the chatroom.

Best wishes

Sophiesiren

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I seem to be in contradiction to the rules as a transvestite who has not tagged their name with TV, i do never try to mislead people and my profile clearly states I am a trannie.

When asking to chat I always say i am a trannie, and if I receive a blind pc I always ask if they have read my profile.

I hope this will be sufficient, as a frequent customer of SHQ I would hate to be banned from the chatroom.

Best wishes

Sophiesiren

I have seen you state and know you tell people, so there is no deceit, but would it not be easier just to add the tag instead of having to explain it every time ?

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I am not one in to campaigning for rights etc but do not see why i should, do not like labels. Will not make it an issue or a fuss, if the rules are to be enforced, and I understand they may have to be, I will stop using the site.

I would not raise this but someone may challenge the rule on grounds of discrimination one day, may be worth checking it out.

Regards

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Hi Sophie,

I know what you're saying and agree. I think the key thing is "not to deceive" and clearly you're completely in the right in that regard. The tagging thing is a guide but shouldn't be a cause for getting banned if you prefer not to do it. Each to their own!

Any problems, let me know.

David@SHQ

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There is no interpretation of the rules, they are very straight forward and porn links being posted is a definite no.

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There is no interpretation of the rules, they are very straight forward and porn links being posted is a definite no.

Simply, factually untrue:

(1) I posted a link to Flickr which is not a porn site

(2) I was then told that the rules were very clear: no links may be posted. But when I read them what they actually said is that it is forbidden to advertise or promote a site by posting a link. I'd neither advertised or promoted a site, I'd merely answered a question as to where people could see photos of me. Even the moderator at this point admitted the rule was poorly worded (and I note it has since be changed).

I'd add that when I began adding photos here I was "encouraged" to reduce the number of contributions and post more on Flickr and to then direct members here to those photos (by posting a link). I think you have to admit, it is a little confusing to encourage links to Flickr here but threaten to ban someone for posting the exact same link in the chat room.

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Thanks Chat Moderator for your help!

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I dont know the best place to put this comment but I hope someone will see it and hopefully act upon it please.

On the old Forum you could put someone on Ignore and there they stayed. Now, every time I open up I find the people I have put on Ignore have been reinstated again. I personally can't remember the names of all that I have put on Ignore so the old system was handy. Now I find I have to chat with someone for a while before he/she says something that I remember I Ignored them for a while ago.

Is it possible to go back to the old system where once Ignored they stay there until released by the person who Ignored them

Many thanks

Gail

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Hi,

I have just received a ban for sending pms without asking first. I would just like to apologise and state that this will not happen again.

Regards

Rob

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Hi,

I have just received a ban for sending pms without asking first. I would just like to apologise and state that this will not happen again.

Regards

Rob

 

But you promptly created a new account and straight back into the chat room as Edinguy.

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I was trying to finish a conversation with someone, I hold my hands up and admit to that.

I await whatever punishment is deemed appropriate, but I would be devastated to banned for good, I have some dear friends here and truely love this site.

I can only apologise if I have offended anyone, it was not my intention

Rob

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Very fair point, links allowed in forum but not allowed in chat-room...? I think the point you make is one of inconsistency which is quite harsh......!!!!!

 

The chatroom moderator works extremely hard on being very consistently inconsistent. :P

 

As one of many banned, I have to say to say my quality of life has improved ever since my sentence...... :D  :P  ;)  :)

As regards links Linda I have found that the guys just come and ask for them in private anyway esp when they know you have a website, so to me whats the harm in putting links anywhere really.!! Hope you are doing OK.XXX

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As someone who has recently received two warnings from the moderator for allegedly sending unsolicited PCs to people, it turns out that the person complaining in both cases was....a chat moderator!  No other complaints from anyone about anything ever.

 

It's so obvious that the rules should state that PC requests are OK unless explicitly stated otherwise in the profile, rather than the other way around, that it should hardly need saying, but hey, at least the current rules make the chat mods feel important, which is really all they want anyway. After all, it's about them, not everyone else, right?

 

Its always easy to justify your existence on the basis of "protecting the members", but when there's an "ignore private chat" button, as there is, isn't chat mod intervention a solution without a problem?

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As someone who has recently received two warnings from the moderator for allegedly sending unsolicited PCs to people, it turns out that the person complaining in both cases was....a chat moderator!  No other complaints from anyone about anything ever.

 

 

 

In both cases I was sent copies of your pc'es to other members along with the complaints that you sent unsolicited pc's and interrupted their conversations that were ongoing.   I am the one that receives the complaints and then contacts you in return.   So please do not misunderstand the fact that I contact you as the complaint coming from me.  I merely pass it on to you from our members.

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As regards links Linda I have found that the guys just come and ask for them in private anyway esp when they know you have a website, so to me whats the harm in putting links anywhere really.!! Hope you are doing OK.XXX

 

The reason links are not allowed there is for the safety of our members.  Like most other websites we get our fair share of spammers who post nasty links and our chat room members click on these mostly without looking or thinking.  We end up being blamed for the virus attacks on their computers.

 

Links in the forum ... as if people are more selective on what they click on and possibly look at the link and think twice.

 

So whilst it may seem ludicrous, as Linda puts it, again there is a reason for it.

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In both cases I was sent copies of your pc'es to other members along with the complaints that you sent unsolicited pc's and interrupted their conversations that were ongoing.   I am the one that receives the complaints and then contacts you in return.   So please do not misunderstand the fact that I contact you as the complaint coming from me.  I merely pass it on to you from our members.

 

You miss my point. Which wasn't that the complaint originated from you, but that the complaining recipient was also a (possibly former) chat moderator. They really seem to be the only ones who give a toss. A solution without a problem

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You miss my point. Which wasn't that the complaint originated from you, but that the complaining recipient was also a (possibly former) chat moderator. They really seem to be the only ones who give a toss. A solution without a problem

 

I never divulge who the complainant is, so not sure how you draw this conclusion.

 

Your original post states for "allegedly" sending unsolicited  private messages, which looks like a denial that this happened.

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I never divulge who the complainant is, so not sure how you draw this conclusion.

 

Your original post states for "allegedly" sending unsolicited  private messages, which looks like a denial that this happened.

 

It's not a conclusion, its a statement of fact. You know it, and I know it.

 

And you probably should look up "allegedly" in a dictionary.

 

Either way, I'm out of this discussion. Nothing to be gained from it other than massaging the ego of a chat mod

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As a looker-on ,  I hope  Surrey444 , Linda(legsonshow) and ClaireT are all  allowed back in the chat room again soon .

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If Linda isn't allowed in the chatroom, its not a chatroom... .she's 100% who this forum is aimed at.  A legend and a totally gorgeous lady

 

Also,and Mr BnB has his opinion on this,  a "spectacular piece of ass" too, but that may not be relevant in the chat room :)

 

Anne xx

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Thank you Tudor - as always, but I think that's unlikely to happen for whatever reason.

 

Kisses Linda x

 

You've pulled, Tudor.

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I feel a lot of people don't feel this applies when it's the same genders, the amount of guys who drop me a message out of the blue in chat is numerous. It's not always offensive or sexual but a heads up with be nice some times.

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